Happy women don’t make Excuses or Act like Victims

What's Your Excuse?

Successful happy women don’t make excuses or act like victims and give away their power.

Do you blame others for your unhappiness – is it your husband’s fault, your children, your poor health, your decreasing finances, your genetics? How is that working for you? Keeping these stories of blame alive NEVER get you where you want to go.

Do you do the same thing when you feel you’ve been wronged by someone else? Do you get into that victim mindset that just doesn’t serve you well at all?

Okay, you're right and they're wrong. “They” are the reason you're not happy. Does this sound like you?

• They don't do what they say they're going to
• They lie
• They cut in front of you in traffic
• They lose your stuff
• They don't pay back money you loaned them
• They’re rude
• They’re late
• They don't understand your worth
• They don't give you credit
• They don’t appreciate all you do for them
• And on and on and on

You're right, you're absolutely right, BUT focusing on your rightness and their wrongness will only bring more focus on the thing that's making you crazy.

Don't put your rightness ahead of your happiness.

Don’t give others the power over your happiness. Take responsibility for your own happiness and never make excuses or play the victim card - make opportunities out of every challenging situation.

You can change these self-defeating patterns just by being aware of them and having the desire to change.

Are you willing to accept responsibility for your happiness and commit to a NO EXCUSES mindset?